Perfect relationship?

Does perfect relationship exist? 

Yes of course.

But a relationship can’t possibly be perfect if there is no arguments, nagging, disappointments, jealousy and challenges. The perfection happens when both the girl and the guy willing to talk about it either to themselves or with their partners and find a solution for it. 

Strictly no third parties are involved. 

Unless you plan to walk out of the relationship for good. Never let any third party to get involve in your relationship matter. This makes things to be less complicated and straight to the point.

Third party involvement, be it your BFF, friend or family, can only find a temporary solution or make things even worst. Love should only involve two hearts and souls. Anything that happens between both of you should be like “skeleton in the closet”.

In this way, eventually you will make things improve between both of you. The level of trusting each other in solving problems together increases. The respect towards the privacy of your relationship increases. In the end, you both of you become a more matured couple.

The relationship will eventually feel good not only from the outside, but also from the inside...
Perfect~

Ennavale adi Ennavale Tamil song (stop motion troll)

Hello people.
If there are any readers out there know Tamil, do watch this video. It is my first stop motion animated troll on a Tamil song.
For non- Tamil readers, feel free to watch too. But the troll was based on the lyrics, so here is a link for the translation...

http://arr-songs-translated.blogspot.com/2007/05/ennavale-adi-ennavale.html

Hope you enjoy watching.
Doing something crazily interesting everyday makes each day memorable ~

Really? Are you happy in that way? I have better solution...

DON'T FORCE SOMEONE TO REMEMBER YOU ALL THE TIME, JUST STAY SILENT AND LET THEM REALIZE HOW WILL THEY BE WITHOUT YOU IN THEIR LIFE...... 

- I came across this statement and I was like, really? Are you happy with that?

Well, if you asked me, both the actions above are equally waste of time. 

Forcing someone to remember you or spend time with you is obviously against the person’s willingness and the extra time you force them to spend with you will leave no sweet memories anyway. You probably end up arguing or seeing their face listening to you with no or least interest. So why force? It is a total waste of time.

The second statement, holding yourself by avoiding remembering them, forcing yourself to pretend you don’t care, staying silent to make them realize and miss you is not going to benefit you either.

In the first statement, you force the person you love against their will, in the second statement, you force yourself against you own will. Life is not about forcing someone or yourself. Such forcing act is not going to benefit both parties. Forcing someone hurts you and forcing yourself will hurt that someone and if it doesn't hurt them, you get hurt in the end right?

You see, life is about living your life. How you are living it, how you are appreciating people in your life, how concern are you about your loved ones and how much effort you put in to make things work. Your life should not take into account how someone living their life, how they appreciate your presence, how concern are they about you and how much effort they put in to make things work. It is their own business, it is their life.

Be a person who do anything that make yourself happy instead of making others happy. Even if that person is your parents, siblings, sweetheart or friends, do things that make you happy. If making them happy is your happiness, do it heartily. In that way, you will never expect anything in return from them because you have done your part well which have made you happy. Your happiness should be the only reward for your actions. Their reaction is a just a bonus.

Always remember, happiness starts from you, not from anyone else. 

Funny human's littering psychology

I wonder why people can hold themselves from spitting or throw rubbish on the floor in a big shopping complex but unable to keep the same habit when walking along the hawker stall or walking across the street. Is this some kind of funny human psychology in littering? 

I far as I can see, there are quite a number of rubbish bins can be found along the street. And keeping those empty cans and bottles of drinks or a used tissue paper in your hand till you come across a rubbish bin will not make the rubbish decay in your hand right.

So why litter here and there? I came across many parents who sets a very wrong example to their children by littering in front of them. Dear adults, are you trying to tell them that there will be someone to pick it up? Then why scold them when they do the same in the house?

The restless feeling of wanting to throw the rubbish in your hand right away when you are in a car or walking down the street is surprisingly suppressed when you are walking in a shopping complex.

Make it a habit to throw any rubbish in the rubbish bin. Yes you are just one human being but seeing you doing that, your children will learn, your family and friends might change as well. 

You versus your tongue and attitude... Who wins?

There are so many challenges in this world. There are so many challenges that we want to face in this world. This includes body building, achieving a certain status in life, earning a sum of money, increasing body endurance, controlling emotion and being polite. 

Yes, being polite all the time is a challenge too nowadays.

Being a polite person does not mean you are weak. It does not mean you are a loser. It definitely means you have both your tongue and attitude in your control. Nowadays we are so tied to bad words and calling people names. Even among couples. It will start as “You are a monkey”, then it goes “can you stop behaving like an a**hole”. And sometimes it goes “what the f**k is wrong with you?”  

These words have become the seasoning to each and every sentences nowadays:

With even a two year old able to use such words nowadays, you can clearly see the evolution in our language.

Hereby, if you are concern about the evolution that is shaping our tongue, making it even sharper than a sword’s edge, take up the challenge of being polite.

Polite is not nerdy

Polite is not awkward

Polite is not weak

Polite doesn't hurt anybody

Polite means you have power over your tongue and attitude

Polite brings respect to you